Tag Archives: negative

“I allow you to see me this way”

Posted on December 6, 2020 by lolkin

Whether you are dealing with a negative family member, a friend who is being unnecessarily harsh, online trolls, some form of unjust treatment or whatever else – Matt Kahn’s reframing below is like a magical switch of perspective – flick! … Continue reading →

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How do you handle negative people in your life when they are your loved ones? #happiness

Posted on December 9, 2017 by lolkin

I post on Quora (you can find my answers here). The question in the title attracted my attention because this is something I am trying to figure out (my take on it is here). But it’s Rosalyn’s answer (right) that blew my … Continue reading →

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How to remain calm with people. It has to do with self love #happiness

Posted on January 7, 2017 by lolkin

I have taken a long time to learn to deal with ‘negative’ people. It took a while to understand that often the problem is not in others but in me. Alain de Botton sums it up beautifully. When dealing with … Continue reading →

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