Tag Archives: pain

“I allow you to see me this way”

Posted on December 6, 2020 by lolkin

Whether you are dealing with a negative family member, a friend who is being unnecessarily harsh, online trolls, some form of unjust treatment or whatever else – Matt Kahn’s reframing below is like a magical switch of perspective – flick! … Continue reading →

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Love crushes, obsessions, poetry… Love addiction and what pain-body has to do with it (Part 1)

Posted on July 4, 2015 by lolkin

Romantic love is an unachievable fantasy — Dalai Lama    Love. What a tricky, elusive, individual thing. We all know what it should or might be, we never really know if it is what we’ve got. When I was young, … Continue reading →

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How To Overcome The Temptations

Posted on April 6, 2014 by lolkin

I have been working on self development, or self improvement, however you call it, for now almost 15 years, perhaps even more. Over the years I have uncovered a variety of truths – underlying motivations behind my actions, implications of … Continue reading →

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If You Hurt Someone You Love

Posted on January 10, 2014 by lolkin

I try to live in the now, in present. It’s not easy. Whenever my mind wonders, it brings up some things which live in the past but which I regret to this day. All of them – hurting people I … Continue reading →

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Stop Being A Glass. Become A Lake.

Posted on January 9, 2014 by lolkin

I love Buddhist style parables. I love them. I think they are great at producing those eureka moments. My most favourite one is about a monk, a tiger and a strawberry bush. Today I found this great page and this … Continue reading →

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